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June 14, 2014
A Man for All Seasons
This piece originally appeared in the Women’s Sports Foundation newsletter in 1995. My father passed away in October 1994, just after I completed my...
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June 11, 2014
Nota Bene
Harley, Helen and I have just returned from a walk in the woods. Forty-five minutes is about all Harley can handle these days. The...
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June 4, 2014
Lucky
Beautiful mornings are different here. It’s 65 degrees, overcast with a steady 10 mile per hour breeze. It’s not windy, the air doesn’t buffet...
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May 21, 2014
Learning to Fall
A brilliant pair of orioles is working on two blocks of suet in the mesquite tree. They swing gently in the wind, easily maintaining...
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May 13, 2014
Becoming Judie Kay
Every daughter realizes at some point in her life that, “Dear God, I’ve become my mother.” Sometimes it’s said with a bowed head, shaking...
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December 4, 2013
What an In-Teresting Monster
I scared a dog today. I didn’t mean to, of course, but it happened. I didn’t understand what was making Charlie uncomfortable until I...
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November 25, 2013
Simple
I’m sitting on the couch with Harley curled up at my side, snoozing away. The Keith Jarrett Trio’s cover of “It’s All In the...
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October 21, 2013
Into the Woods
A few months ago my dear friends gave me the best gift possible: my own set of keys to their cabin in the woods....
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October 14, 2013
Who’s Pullin’ My Tail?!
I shouldn’t be amused by this, but I am. I won’t win any Mother of the Year awards for telling this story, either. But...
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September 30, 2013
First Crushes Are Hard
Helen is in love. Hopelessly devoted to a boy who doesn’t even know she’s alive. Every night, she waits for him to return, hoping...
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